In Which My Daughter and Her Friends Still Think I’m Cool.

Last Thursday marked one of the last full school days for my children’s school. This is the time when the kids party like it 2099, including, bounce houses, picnics, playgrounds, candy… and for us, unfortuanately, rain. Both of my girls’ outdoor picnics got rained out, but the fun didn’t totally halt! They moved inside.
So, the teacher did an amazing job of talking up the move, and making the kids feel like it would be “way better” to have it indoors! She really is a genius. Anyway, we served the yummy hotdogs, slaw and baked beans from the cafeteria, and gathered around “picnic blankets” in the classroom.
After I served, I walked into the classroom, and eyed the table where the teachers and a few parents were sitting, as well as HipChick and her friends gathered on the floor. I weighed the options; should I join the adults or crash their party? I decided that there may not be many more years in which she will tolerate my presence with a group of friends, so I plopped on the floor with them!
As we sat and talked, and I threatened to embarrass HipChick, the girls were openly sharing with me their plans and hopes for the summer, funny times from the previous year, jokes, and laughter. One of them even asked if I would sing (which I didn’t, lol), but it was so sweet! I glanced over to HipChick a few times, and saw her smiling widely. I even caught a look that I’m positive said, “I’m proud that you’re my mom.”
That day, I reveled in the fact that I was proud of her, too. I love the friends she has chosen the girl she has become! Now let’s hold on to this utopia through the teen years, eh?
Even so, I have never presented myself as solely my kids’ “friend.” I have high expectations for my kids as far as behavior and attitude, and try to hold them responsible for their actions. By no means am I a perfect parent, but over the long run, I think we’re doing pretty well. I want to encourage other parents out there that you don’t have to be you child’s BFF to get them to like you. Give them guidance and discipline, but don’t forget to laugh hysterically as well!
Do you have any tips or stories about relating to your kids?

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  1. Coma Girl says:

    This is so cool! My mom was a young mom and every once in a while it was nice when she hung out and talked to me and my friends, but she never crossed the line and became our "friend" (I had one friend's mom who did that and it's just weird!). She always let us know she was still a mother first.

    It's nice to have that balance between friend and mom.

    Good job!


  2. Mary @ Giving Up On Perfect says:

    What a sweet story! I think it's a huge blessing that your daughter has good friends. My daughter is just 1 1/2, but I pray that she finds a good group of girlfriends to walk through childhood with!


  3. Anonymous says:

    Yes, I have a comment….keep doing what you are doing….it all sounds familiar! Mom


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